Greetings Storytellers! In my recent blog posts, we discussed that you have to make certain changes within yourself in order to meet the type of person you want to meet. Reminder, the Law of Attraction involves attracting by focusing on what you want and creating the example of what you want in your life. So, for instance, if you want to be rich, you have to act and live like you are rich. That doesn’t mean buying a yacht and putting yourself in debt, but does mean asking yourself, “How would a person with money handle this moment?” (Remember, rich people are often rich because they don’t squander their money). The same rules apply to love.
The next step is the way you think about love and relationship. When on a date, or even talking to someone that you may be interested in, ask yourself, “What would a person who is romantic say/do right now?” or “What would a person who is truly thinking of their lover’s well-being say right now?” You need to ask yourself these questions as you are thinking of what to say or do, and act the role. If that’s a bit of a challenge, pick a role model. You might think, (and I am thinking about the movie Crazy Stupid Love at the moment), “What would Ryan Gosling’s character do right now?” or “How would (insert woman you think is sexy), speak right now?”
Bottom line Storytellers, is you need a model. Whether it’s a friend of yours, or a character you see in a movie, you need to copy the actions of someone you believe has the trait you want to convey. Want to be sexy? Think of a person who is sexy. Funny? Romantic? Think of a person/character who is romantic. I’m not suggesting you not be yourself, but what I am telling you is to expand who you are and add some new skills to your relationship skillset. Have fun with it!