We all want to hear wonderful things said to us by our partners, but the truth is, words are a very small percentage of effective communication. It doesn’t matter if you are newly dating or figuring out how to fix your relationship, the secret law of attraction in relationships focuses on the tone and manner of what you say. Research shows that tone is 5 times more impactful than the words themselves! For example, you can say, “I love you” to your mom, and “I love you” to your boyfriend /girlfriend, but shouldn’t the way it is said be different? (If not, you need to stop reading this blog and look up Dr.Freud).
Happy Birthday! Aren’t Birthdays interesting? Some people get super-excited and can’t wait for the world to pour love down on them. From decorating their bedroom door, to a special dinner, presents, flowers, attention and more, the day’s outlook is today is mine! Then there are many of you, especially adults, who have the opposite feeling. You want to ignore that it’s your birthday or its just another day. You don’t really acknowledge it, you don’t do anything to celebrate it, and you kind of just want the day to pass quietly.
Love is one of the most challenging emotions that we need to work on. It's something that we crave, yet ironically are usually responsible for sabotaging our chances of finding it. Various reasons include, we bail too soon, have high expectations of the other person and don't truly give or open up because we are afraid of getting hurt.
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